Healthy Communication in Marriage

The biggest problem of communication in the family can be accepted as “not listening to the other side”.

◾️ Spouses do without listening, which is defined as "trapped listening" instead of listening to understand each other. In other words, one should be away from the idea of ​​"let him speak, let me find his mistakes and spoil him".

◾️ Avoid artificial and synthetic behavior. Relationships and communications of those who act insincerely and in a false manner are unhealthy and deceive both sides.

◾️ Empathize. In short, “put yourself in the other person's shoes. "

◾️ Keep eye contact while talking with your partner. This keeps your mind from drifting elsewhere.

◾️ Observe body language. Clenched fists¸ trembling hands¸ tears¸ furrowed eyebrows and eye movements¸ give clues to the other person's feeling. Give your partner appropriate answers.

◾️ Show your attention with your body language. Show your respect by listening to your spouse with care while talking.

◾️ Feel your partner's emotions. Ask yourself. "How does my wife feel?" When you find the answer, give your partner the appropriate answer.

You cannot establish a healthy and successful relationship with anyone you do not respect or accept their existence.